Your child all of a sudden can’t be reasoned with, their actions and behaviors are not controllable. As a parent, you feel helpless. I have one simple strategy that will help in that high-stress moment.
Shoe tying is a very complex skill to learn. You not only need the hand strength and manipulation skills, but you also need to be able to complete a multi-step sequencing task, as well as the hand-eye coordination to sneak that lace through the “hole”.